What's in a name ?

Yesterday I was watching a rerun of the famous Games of Thrones Season 4 (readers who haven't seen GOT, would recommend it strongly ) and I saw a character called Theon Greyjoy who is captured by Ramsay Bolton and tortured to a point where he is emasculated , his will broken and he just becomes a slave to Ramsay and doesn't escape his captivity even when given an opportunity to !!

Well I don't say that I want to break Adi's will the way they depicted in GOT as that is just not my style but what struck was the name Ramsay gives to Theon at the end of the torture, "REEK".

From then on whenever Ramsay said "Reek" , Theon's response was that of a slave.

And then an idea clicked, I have no specific name for Adi when we are in the zone alone and even when I am humiliating him I just use abuse words like "A**h***" or its Hindi equivalent "G***U".

I thought we should have a name that as soon as I call it Adi should leave everything and get into the zone. A name that when called means I am assuming the dominant role and he is just a sub.

But what could be that name ??? I tried thinking but cannot conjure something that is a home run..

So I am asking my readers for a name for my husband that he is worthy (or unworthy) enough.

Also on the same lines I want a name for myself that he should call me by when I use his new name.

I don't want the run of the mill stuff like "Slave, Slut, Mistress, Queen or Ma'am".

Something different and unique

Can you help ??

Till Later
Luv Pooja

Subtle Domination - Drinking

As mentioned in my previous post there are times when you don't have to be over the top with ur actions to show that you are the boss. Sometimes small gestures go a long way to enforce that I rule Adi's world and that he needs to defer to me for all his decisions.  Let me demonstrate with an example.

Adi & myself both enjoy to have a drink or 2 on occasions. He has been an active drinker through his college days and knows how to hold one . Infact he told me once that his batch mates used to call him a "Tanker" which meant he has humongous capacity. While he enjoys his hard core Old Monk I am more of an occasional drinker enjoying my wine and cocktails and sometimes Bacardi Breezer or vodka . While I am not a heavy drinker I can hold my own in front of Adi. We have had a lot of parties at our place where we all lay wasted after all night drinking sessions.

However the problem comes when we have to go out. Now while I enjoy to drive I rarely allow myself behind the wheel after a couple of drinks. Before we had FLR this was always a pain point as more often than not I had to sacrifice and be the designated driver between the two of us.

Well not anymore !! This new year's we had a mega party planned at a friend's farmhouse in Mehrauli. On the way Adi was excited as he was going to meet a lot of old friends and they had plans to drink the place down. Well surprise Adi. While I was driving to the party I calmly told Adi that he is going to be the designated driver for the journey back. I could see the blood drain from his face. I knew he wanted to protest but was conflicted. Instead he went quiet. I waited for a min or 2 and then remarked " What hapd Adi . Cat got ur tongue ?". He kept quiet. So I teased him further " I think you should be happy that I am giving you a chance to sacrifice something for my happiness. Shouldn't you ?". He replied " Yes, Pooja. I am happy" . Rest of the drive was spent in silence with me smiling and Adi sulking quietly.

Well the party was a blur as I had a blast getting wasted. Adi was allowed only 2 Pegs and had to spend rest of the night drinking Red Bull. When the party ended, Adi drove me back but I could feel that while I was still smiling Adi too had a changed demeanour. No longer was he sulking but had a contend smile on his face. When we reached home Adi quickly got out and ran to my side to open the door. As I pushed my feet out of the door. Adi bowed down and kissed my boots and said  " Thanks Pooja for giving me this chance. Seeing you so happy has made my day". Hearing that I felt proud of myself . I was pretty drunk but in my senses to see that it was quite a major achievement in our relationship.

As we went inside I settled into the sofa and asked Adi to get a bottle of Bacardi from the kitchen. Adi was confused as I was already pretty drunk. but complied. As he came back I saw he had the bottle and two glasses. I told him we wont be needing the glasses. I asked him to give me the bottle and remove my shoes. As it was December I was wearing my ankle high boots. Adi removed the right one first and then the sock. I asked him to then lie down on his back. under my feet. When he settled down I opened the bottle I placed my big toe inside his mouth and let the bacardi flow. I had seen a scene in a movie with Salma Hayek and I had replicated the same. Well movie and reality are different and drinking neat on the flow is not really that easy and Adi started to cough after a initial sip or two and splash was making the carpet all wet. So I stopped and improvised. I picked my boot and poured the Bacardi inside and handed it over to Adi. He knew what needed to be done. He brought boot to his lips and started to drink. Well this made me very horny inspite of being drunk. Adi was sitting cross- legged in front of me and I started to mash his crotch with my right foot. I told him to stop and get naked. Well he complied in a flash and then I resumed playing with his dick with my foot while he drank his fill. When he was done I got up and asked him to bring a towel. I removed my jeans and panties and then laid down the towel and lied down. I then poured some Bacardi on my pussy and it tingled. I then commanded " Lick It" and Adi drove right in with all his excitement. I was already so wet and orgasmed in no time. I then asked Adi to clean up while I went into the bed room for my sleep. 

So what started as a small gesture of FLR ended with a full blown orgasm for me and we both were happy and the relationship progressed a lot forward. 

What do my readers have to say ? Do you any such subtle gestures that put you or ur husbands in a complete trance ?

Do Share

Till Later

Luv Pooja

Recap to the year gone by !!

It is exactly to this date that I started this blog last year so in a way it is my blog-anniversary and I guess it is the perfect time to take a pause and see how this blog has progressed. 

To summarize ,1 Year ,30 posts , 200 comments and 30,000 views later I think we have come a long way but have an even longer journey ahead of us. When I started writing the only goal in my mind was to share what we had and maybe get the reassurance that we are a normal couple and not some freaks out there trying things that are against the laws of nature. However given the love I have received on this blog I can safely say that I am more confident on the journey we have undertaken.

I would like thank all the readers for their valuable feedback and guidance on the nuanced relationship Adi and myself have. While majority of the comments have been shared under Anonymous there are few people who I like to give explicit thanks to for being there through the year and hope they continue with me in times to come

sameer kummr
MR BILL
Rohit malhotra
mervyco

I'm-Hers
ThoughtsBehindMyThoughts
My Heart's Desire (The first comment )

Also a special shout goes to the Anonymous Blogger -M who has understood me more than anyone else (maybe you know me better than myself). Haven't heard from you in a while so I hope you will be back to post ur valuable comments soon.

I would also want to give thanks to some blogs that I follow for advice and guidance. They have been an inspiration and I hope they continue to share more insights on their respective FLR in years to come

im-hers.blogspot.com/

slaveofmistress-s.blogspot.com/

sheisincharge.blogspot.com/

slowwatersrundeep.blogspot.com/

journeyintowlm.blogspot.com/

rwddh.blogspot.com/

Will be posting again soon with a new post on Subtle Domination series.

Till Later

Luv Pooja

Subtle Domination - Cricket

When I started this blog one of the main objectives was to share thoughts on a marriage where the relationship is more female led in the real world. I say more because an absolute female led marriage is a myth. Most of the blogs that I read earlier advocate  a "whips and chains" type of 24/7 relationship which in the real world might work for a short time but in a long run is unsustainable and will fizzle out eventually. I learnt the same the hard way and had to take steps back to ensure that me and my husband have a long and fulfilling life. We are husband and wife for most of the times and  a master and slave only when necessary. I am not here to break my husband and crush his will.

However what I do need is a husband who puts my interests first before his. It is a simple need and one that Adi has to accept voluntarily that I come first every-time even when that might be opposite of what he wants.Once that is achieved I don't have to draw elaborate plans and schemes.

There are subtle things that he has to do through the days that remind him of his place. At times I need to and do reinforce my domination through punishment or just because I want to. However those times are limited and infrequent. If I go hammers and tongs with a dominatrix attitude all the time it will drive a wedge between our marriage pretty soon. The small things I test him with and his sacrifices to keep me at a pedestal increase my love for him and vice versa. Let me elaborate you with an example.
India is a cricket crazy nation and that craziness percolates to my husband as well. To gauge his craziness he is one of those who rose at 3 AM to watch those matches in Australia and that too on my terms. Last year I had put a limit to his cricket watching but then well last month the World Cup started. Adi and I had a discussion and we decided that if he has to earn watching the matches he needs to give something back. I told him I will decide what that would be and he will have no say in it, For match 1 (India- Pak) , I told him he will have forego his orgasm and throw the dice again to get a new number. He was already on Day 5 and so had a huge risk to take but he had no choice and threw a 7 so had to a week more. Well as it happened the Match 2 ( India - SA) coincided with his orgasm day. So I told him that he will have a ruined one if he wants to watch the match. He had a conundrum but eventually gave in and I had fun ruining his orgasm. Now here is where the devil in me rises. The match started early morning 9 AM or so and Adi has to watch all the matches wearing my used panties from the last day. I think it was India who batted first and when I woke I saw Adi watching a Dhawan nearing a century that I started to get kinky. I told Adi to get between my legs under the blanket and lick me. Adi looked at me but had no choice. He immediately dove in and made me come in record time all the while with me humiliating him that I was watching the match while he could just listen to my taunts. I then removed his panties and shoved them in his mouth and asked him to lie down. I started to tease his cock with my mouth and brought him closer. When I sensed he was about to come I used to withdraw and start all over again in 2 mins. This went on for a good 20 mins while India completed its innings. Finally I stroked him till he started to spasm at which  I let go of his cock and held his hands tightly on bed while he struggled. Now I am strong enough to keep Adi pinned down for the precious moments while he spurted. His face became red and he could see the wide smile on my face.  I then asked him to clean up and rewind the match to watch what he missed. He in turn thanked me by kissing my feet.
Remaining India group matches were insignificant so the sacrifices were small as well. For one he had to make me orgasm 3 times with his tongue. For another one he had to polish all my shoes and sandals and lick them. Then came the big 2 - Quarterfinal vs Bangladesh. I knew it was on a workday so I told Adi that he can take a off. I had no intention of doing so whatever I had to do was to happen before the match. We were in the kitchen preparing dinner the night before the match that I told Adi that he will have to get a Golden Shower if he wants to watch this match. Now Adi hated the last time I did it as a punishment and has dreaded it since, Seeing his reaction I thought he might even let go of the match even but then the cricket fan in him rose and he reluctantly agreed. I upped the stakes - I told him that he has to beg me for the shower now. Adi looked at me pleadingly but then went on his knees and started to plead " Can I watch the match please" . I tormented him " And what would you do to get that privilege  ?" . He replied "Anything" . I smirked. " Well that is a nice answer but not the one I am looking for ". He mumbled and said " Can you please piss on me " I barked " Ask nicely "  He then said "Can you please please piss on me " I then grabbed him by his hair and dragged him to bathroom and asked him to remove his clothes. He did that and went to tub. I then asked him to kneel, Removed my pyjamas and panties and got behind him and let a stream out. The first impact was on his back and I aimed towards the back of his head. Once I was done I ordered him to turn around and lick me clean. He did and thanked me properly and we went back to our routine world.

Now I could have been a cruel wife and refused him to watch the matches at all and I am sure Adi would have agreed instead I used the daily life opportunities to really push our boundaries. I liked Adi sacrificing all that for me and he agrees that all these makes him value our relationship even more.

What do you guys have to say about it ?

Till Later
Luv Pooja

Note: I know I left the Semi-Final out as it warrants a post of its own