Well this is an old incident but I realized that I never shared it with you all so I thought best to write now.
This happened a couple or more years back when Adi and myself were in full FLR mode. I had a friend (Rishabh) (well more than a friend from past) who I was in constant touch with. He had quite a personality and used to crack me up on the drop of a hat. He had also tried to flirt with me in past and I had shot him down. However even post marriage his tone was quite open. He would comment on my posts with messages like " Sexy Pic". Whenever I used to tease him for not getting married he would say " tum ne wait nahin kee na meri( you didn't wait for me)" and then laugh. I used to brush this off as harmless fun and never thought much about it. Then a party happened where Rishabh was also there and I shared the dance floor with him. Adi was also there. When we came back we had a huge fight and Adi shared his reservations about my friendship with him. At first I was quite surprised and tried to reason but soon I realized that Adi was quite upset and by explaining I would have only made him double down. I told him that I will think about it. I finally decided that I will give Rishabh a break and try to have minimal communication. After all I love Adi and didn't want him to feel insecure at all.
Time went by but as we all were in the same circle of friends we couldn't avoid each other completely. Rishabh also started to feel something was wrong and talked to me but I brushed him off. Any comment that Rishabh posted on my photos and that day Adi was in a different mood. I knew that my initial plan will not work and that I needed to tackle this problem differently. During these times I had read on a blog where a wife had a similar problem and she had tackled it beautifully. So I decided to follow her cue.
One evening on a weekday when I came back from office I put my plan to action. I was still wearing my office clothes with my black heelswhich is like a very normal day with no major FLR, I waited for the maid to leave after preparing food. . Then I walked over to Adi who was sitting on the bed watching TV and grabbed his hair in my hand and pulled in off the bed and said " Get here and kneel you bitch". He was completely taken aback and shocked on the sudden turn of events. I then walked over with Adi's hair still in hand and him crawling behind me and sat on the ottoman chair in our room. I then asked Adi to get completely naked. He had already changed to his T-shirt and shorts so it didn't take much time. I asked him to then kneel and look at my feet while I spoke. I then said that "Adi, I have had enough of your whining about Rishabh and I am going to do something about it. Bring me my mobile from the dining table". Adi started to get up and I immediately put my hand in his hair and pushed him down. "Crawl like a puppy and bring it in your mouth and dare you drop it". As Adi started to walk away I put my heel on his ass to push him and said "Now hurry up"..
Adi scampered to the other room and brought the mobile in his mouth and presented it to me. I took it from his mouth and remarked "Eyes down puppy.. Now I am going to call Rishabh and talk to him ..Let him flirt with me and you will only do one thing." I then again grabbed a handful of his hair and bent him down so that his lips were inches away from my heels and said " You will kiss and lick my feet and not another sound. I want my feet and my heels sparkling once I am done with my call".
Adi only replied " Yes ma'am". I then called Rishabh and started to chat away while Adi put both his hands besides my feet and started to kiss and lick my feet and heels. To make sure Adi has the full effect I put the call on speakerphone so that he hears everything. As usual Rishabh had me laughing and we started to be our old self. He started to flirt and this time I even flirted back . I said to him "Rishabh agar tumne zyaada koshish kari hoti to shayad main tumhare he saath hoti (If you had tried harder maybe I would have been with you)" . Rishabh asked where is Adi and I replied.. "woh mera dhayan rakh raha hai (he is taking care of me)" At this Rishabh replied "God Pooja, you treat him like a "Joru ka Ghulam (wife's slave). I laughed hard and said " Oh you don't know the half of it"...At this Adi lifted his face for a second and for good measure I lifted my right heeled foot and put it on Adi's back and pushed him down again.
The call continued for 30-35 mins and the whole time Adi was buried in my feet and heels licking like an obedient slave. Once I hung up I put my heel under his chin and lifted it up. I asked Adi as to what was his lesson from this and he replied I cannot be jealous of Rishabh". I said good but what else did you learn. He thought for a second and said "I need to accept that you have the better judgement and that I should trust you". I was very happy and said .."Yes Adi that is exactly right"..I then re-iterated that I will call Rishabh or whomever I want at any time, and that the least amount of moping or surliness will earn him a severe punishment...I then added "Now to reinforce that the lesson stays with you kiss my feet and take my heels off and stand in corner holding them against the wall with your face for 30 mins". Adi opened his mouth but then shut up as he knew there no point.
I checked with him some days later and he was much better with Rishabh and me now. I think FLR fixes a lot of things in life :-)
Mam please keep on posting...your posts are like gifts for many of us.
ReplyDeleteJust out of curiosity, does Adi still starts his day by kissing your feet & cleans your shoes on a monthly basis?
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DeleteBeautifully done! This just highlights again that the root cause of unrest and disagreements at most homes is a misguided attempt by both husbands and wives to try and get consensus which ends up in all sorts of complications and really petty arguments. When founded on the basis of mutual trust, an FLR just gets rids of all the unnecessary drama by letting the final word rest with the woman. No lengthy discussions, debates or fights needed. Going by my own experience, the biggest obstacle to this is the male ego...however when I learned to acquiesce for the greater good, I realized it was a huge life hack and a small price to pay for peace and better use of available time.
ReplyDeleteIt was great way to handle such situation. You are really a trend setter. Many people will learn from you.
ReplyDeleteWonderful post...I simply love these posts from you and I hope for the sake of a lot of people out there that you dont stop writing...a lot of us are mesmerized by your life and are happy to live a small part of it through these posts
ReplyDeleteWow.....Clearly showing your past element, a nice way to handle the situation perfectly, however would have loved to see him getting his bare ass red over your knees....
ReplyDeleteI absolutely admire the way in which you turned a potential problem into something perhaps even desirable for the both of you. Until you took charge of the situation, Rishabh may have been a threat to your better half but once you did take control it appears to me that Rishabh became just a prop that accentuates your FLR dynamics and adds to the experience to both of you. By relegating Rishabh to a prop to be used on the phone I am guessing you made him less threatening as well... great post...
ReplyDeleteIs Adi allowed to relieve himself of corner time and get clothed automatically after 30 minutes or do you make him ask for permission?
ReplyDeleteHi Pooja,
ReplyDeleteVery well done...he shd know his place and never question your authority...also he must know you hv very sound judgement than him and that's the reason you are ruling his world.
Rr.
Hi Poo,
ReplyDeleteIt is so poor that your bitch is licking your shoes while you are talking to your friend on phone. It sounded like cuckold. You may want to repeat this act just for the fun once again? It will be great to see what will be Adi's response to it.
This is awesome......please share more posts like this.
ReplyDeleteHi Pooja
ReplyDeleteThis is the most exciting and erotic post you have ever posted since the start of this blog.
Hats off to you for your sheer domination and extraordinary control over your husband.
You are EXCELLENCE !!!
Cheers,
Akshay
Hi Pooja,
ReplyDeleteThis article tells who is the BOSS. To be honest I am jealous of Adi. He is the luckiest person on the earth to have a beautiful, dominant, sharp and commanding wife like you.
When Rishabh was flirting with you and Adi was listening it and licking your shoes, that scene is the epic.
I think that day he has surrendered to his faith and is the best thing to do so as he doesn't have any option.
Licking your shoes is his faith now and you are his Master. This is deadly.
Keep up excellent work. You are THE BEST!!!
Cheers,
Rahul
what a domination! what a power ! and yes agree to that 'flr fixes lot of things'. this corner standing punishment is great..difficult,not so easy but definitely will have effect...
ReplyDeleteAwesome post Pooja Ma'am ...
ReplyDeleteWaiting for more such posts