Well very very long. Lots of things have happened. I might try to list some in subsequent posts but mostly that things have moved forward and backward in a lot of ways.. For one - I am mother now.. This has brought so many changes in our overall dynamic and that I cannot even begin to say. I have a beautiful son who is the apple of my eye and is taking a lot of my time.. Also the world has changed .. we live inside with minimal outside connect which has brought me closer to Adi in ways I couldn't have imagined. He has become a true partner and has helped my overcome a lot of lows that also happened in past years.. We have become true soulmates and even finish each others thoughts now :-) ..
Now where does it leave my FLR life. Well it is still there but much subdued and probably limited to bedroom only. He still does defer to me on a lot of things but overall we have closed the gap a lot. If not from the start we would have been any other vanilla couple but because our past years had a lot of experimentation we still keep going back to a lot of activities. Although I now feel a little guilty afterwards (don't know why ).. However the adrenaline rush it gives me and too an extent Adi makes us go back to those sessions and have some amazing time during it..
Housework has changed a lot especially during pandemic where I pitched in a lot. Now we have a 12 hr maid and that has reduced Adi's burden a lot..
In summary the past couple of years have been a roller coaster with more highs that lows.. We have come out stronger and our FLR dynamic is still active although in a reduced capacity.
I am not sure how many readers still I have left and to restart this blog will need all the encouragement !
So go ahead and shoot ur comments and questions so that we can kick start this journey once more
Luv
Pooja
Dear Pooja,
ReplyDeleteWhat a pleasant surprise to see a post from you after years without.
So many bloggers just fade away and are never heard from again. Many, myself included, manage to rarely post an update.
I can certainly understand that having a child is all consuming and leaves very little time for internet posting. Nevertheless, I do hope that you will be able to share just a little with us about how your longer term FLR has been going. You have such a delightful way of writing. Looking forward to hearing from you again.
mrbill
Tx MrBill
DeleteI am trying to get my mojo back as a dominant. I do have some spurts but I want more consistency. Hopefully soon
Luv
Pooja
Happy to see you are back and hope You can find the time to share more about your journey!
ReplyDeleteTx
DeleteI will try to be more regular
Luv
Pooja
Welcome back. Have eagerly waited for your posts. Please do post often as you possibly can.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on the new family member.
Tx very much
DeleteYou write in the most wonderful way and I am sure there are many who miss it. The reality of raising a child is indeed taxing but equally rewarding. I imagine it also makes leading a lifestyle that does not conform to the "acceptable" norms of society even more difficult. The reality of a female led relationship may be muted and confined after childbirth at least for some time. Maybe thinks can be kept interesting for the two of you and the readers by infusing a bit of fantasy and fiction into your blog. Who knows, these additional bits may just about come true when the opportunity comes along unexpectedly one day!
ReplyDeleteKeep writing...
I appreciate your comments. I agree that societal norms play an important factor. After my baby my mother and then Adi's mother spent many months helping me learning the ropes which brought quite a change in our daily lifestyle. Things that were quite normal earlier in our dynamics became taboo.. Now we are getting back to normal and I am trying to find my mojo as a dominant again. Hopefully soon
DeleteLuv
Pooja
Hi Pooja,
DeleteCongratulations!!
It's really nice to hear from you again. I am especially replying to this response because I w'd like to know more about how your FLR life style went ahead when your mother and MIL was with you? How did you pushed Adi further in front of family..might be more subtle than your earlier married life, but I am sure you must have kept him on leash and your mother and his mother must know now that who is in charge!!
All the best...
Rr
Firstly congratulations on your becoming a mother even more so in continuing your flr in howsoever small a way. Glad that you are Ok. Enjoy your blog as I think it is practical and believable. Keep blogging so that I can fantasize about a life I wish I had
ReplyDeleteTx for the feedback
Deletecant say how excited i am to see you writing again...Ihave read your blog numerous times and everytime I was sad that you arent writing any more ....Please Please Please write more
ReplyDeleteTx for the encouragement.
DeleteLuv
Pooja
Excited to know you are back. Atleast once in a month I wil Check your blog to check if there is any update.
ReplyDeleteAs a FLR family with a kid, eagerly looking to hear from you that how u r managing your FLR dynamic
Tx for being a regular follower. Once a month that should be my target to post now. Correct ..HAHA..
DeleteLuv
Pooja
Just want to say - it's amazing to see you back in this space! And congratulations!!!
ReplyDeleteTx for the feedback..
DeleteLuv
Pooja
Hello Pooja, glad to see you back. I hope you are doing well. Congratulations on the addition to your family. I am eager to read how your relationship has developed. FLR with a kid complicates things but I am sure you and adi would have come up with something to keep the spark alive. Looking forward to see how your relationship has blossomed in the past few years.
ReplyDeleteSam.
TX Sam
DeleteYes things have been topsy turvy for a while now and I am trying to get a semblance of normality back in life. Hopefully soon :-)
Luv
Pooja
Hi Poojaji, Namaste! Thank you for this wonderful blog. I am a recently married wife (1.5 years) and live in Australia where my husband works in IT. He recently revealed his desire to be dominated by me and showed me some videos. He wanted to be caned/spanked nude on his bottom. I found that very hard to digest but obliged him and he was happy although in a lot of pain - and I enjoyed it when doing it, felt a power rush. But also lot of guilt that I hurt him. He also loves to lick and suck my feet that I enjoy very much. He now wants me to put him in Chastity which worries me. We are both from South India, conservative religious families. So this is all feeling very weird for me. Looking for advise from someone who went through this before. - D
ReplyDeleteTx for writing to me. I agree that the initial experience of domination can provide a rush at that time however you feel guilty later as you realize the pain you provided on ur spouse. This is because we are conditioned to worship our husband in India and put them on a pedestal. Therefore to see them at ur feet licking them is both exhilarating and confusing. However with time this will become normal and infact you will crave for more.. Trust me.. Chastity is a big decision and frankly I would advise it to be on an honor basis and not use any devices just yet. try to identify some more activities outside bedroom that can help ur husband feel more submissive. What excites him most.. Maybe pain, maybe verbal humiliation .. Identify those markers and find which are the ones that excite you as well. Once you common areas that make both of you happy ..Voila you have the success formula.. Ping me on hangouts if you need to talk more
DeleteLuv Pooja
Congratulations on your motherhood. New responsibilities and challenges will open door to new opportunities.
ReplyDeleteThank You !!
DeleteDear Pooja, nice to read another blog from you after a long time of waiting. For myself I'm student in Vienna living in relationship with a dominant female student of San Diego. She has a tight reign over me and I know very well my place. Doing the normal house chores I've also to serve her hand and foot. I do it willingly for that it's good for improving my behaviour towards women. On command I bow down in front of her feet for kissing discreetly her toe nails (also for her girl friends when they visit us). It's a great sign of respect which every woman deserve. Best regards from Carol and Linus
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Linus and best of luck on finding a partner that is compatible to your needs. Hoping to hear more from you
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Pooja
Thank you ma'am for coming back. Hope all is fine. Looking forward to updates from you about your lifestyle after becoming mother.
ReplyDeleteHi Pooja, Really happy to see you back, i was reading all your posts very sincerely, but then you suddenly vanished, i kept on coming back and again to check if you are returned, however there was no sign of yours, hence presumed that you might have got busy with your life, still used to check in every once in a while. Really delighted to see you back in action, and offcourse a big congratulations on your new role as a mother which very much explains your absence, but now since you are back looking forward to some great and interesting content....
ReplyDeleteCheers!!
Rohit
Great to see you back mam.Many many congratulations on becoming mother..Really happy for that..great to see the bonding becoming stronger as you wrote that you became true partner..and continue with blog,don't worry,readers will come again.Go ahead ,share anything you like,like here general post or some incident,moment of domination,whatever you feel like.
ReplyDeleteEagerly waiting to hear more from you Pooja Maa'm!!
ReplyDeleteGreat to have you back
ReplyDeleteDear Pooja Mam,
ReplyDeleteI really thought the blog is dead but really happy to see you back…. Congratulations for becoming a mother …. I new role will take most of your time … but please do take time for your readers as well.