Update

Well it has been some time since I posted so wanted to give a quick update. Things have been progressing quite well. Had a nice vacation in Malaysia/Singapore and came back over the weekend. Had some skirmishes with hubby but all is well now. Will post details in next post .

Till then take care and Happy New Year

Luv Pooja

Anniversary Update

Wanted to post this last week but work put this of till now.

Well last week we celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary and it was special. Special because we both luv  and are committed to each other. Special because Adi and myself have found our true calling and are really excited to explore those feelings.

Well the day started special from the very beginning . As I woke up Adi had surprised me with a bunch of flowers and a nice card. The card promised him being there for me forever and while reading I remarked that "Is he ready for what is in store for him in future. Is he scared" . Adi kissed me and replied that he trusted me and my judgement and was not at all afraid. The kissing let to some heavy petting and got me really turned on. I asked Adi to close the bedroom door. As he went away I quickly removed my payjamas and panties. When Adi turned he saw me sitting on the bed with my legs wide open. He looked at my pussy wanting some action and smiled. He immediately understood what I wanted and dove right in. Now most times Adi does a half-hearted job of nibbling at my clit and vagina. it drives me crazy but I needed better and today he was giving that to me. He was licking my clit bottom up with broad strokes and taking my swollen lips and making love them to me. Well it didn't take long and I was writhing with pleasure. I held his head and instructed him to tongue fuck me. He started to part my cunt lips with his tongue and dove right in. I was in ecstasy and came immediately. Adi started to withdraw but I held his head and he lapped up the juices like an obedient hubby. Nice start !!

After the service I made Adi stand in front of me and pulled his payjamas down and played with his dick and balls for a few mins , cupping the balls, stroking the dick till it was rock hard. Then I sent him away for his bath horny and frustarted .. WOW loved the feeling !!!

I had taken the day off but Adi had to work half the day . Suddenly I had an idea. While Adi was in the shower I got up and opened my panty drawer. Took out a pink frilly panty that was definitely 2 sizes small for him and replaced his underwear with the panty. When Adi came out he looked at his clothes and was confused. Then he realized the panty was for him and turned a shade of red. Adi then kissed me goodbye goodbye and I asked him to thank me for the nice present which he did by kissing me feet.

I then decided to laze around the house watching TV, listening to music and getting ready for the evening. I shaved my pussy and loved the feeling of smoothness. Around noon I took a pic of my pussy and sent it to Adi with a caption "COME HOME SOON. MASTER IS EAGERLY WAITING". It took less that 2 mins for him to call me back. He was already horny and this must have put him on the edge. After an hour I msged Adi ti go to wash room and masturbate for me without cummimg. I asked him to send me a video of the whole event. In 20 mins I got the reply with the video of him stroking his dick. It took less that a min for him to be ready to shoot his load . I am EVIL !!!

When Adi came around 3 I was already ready for the movie. I told him I had a surprise for him. I then presented him the bracelet. Again Adi was confused as it was a lady's bracelet. I explained the significance of the bracelet being a symbol of our marriage. He then presented me with a beautiful pair of silver sandals with 3and 1/2 inch heels. They were amazing. I then had him kneel down . I put my foot on his knee and tie the bracelet one my ankle and put the heels on. He then kissed my feet and thanked me for the nice present. I then tied his bracelet on his right wrist and we left for the movie. As it was a weekday and a pathetic movie  (Action Jackson) , most of the hall was empty. I slid my right hand his crotch and started to rub, When he was hard I opened his zippper and inserted my hands and cupped his balls. Adi was squirming in his seat and I was enjoying this show more than what was on the screen.

After the movie we went to a nice restaurant ( Geoffrey's) and as we were seated on a corner table. The table cloth was very long and almost 3/4 the way down to the floor. I removed the heels and placed my foot beneath the table on his crotch and started to rub slowly. I asked Adi to open his fly and then I inserted my toes inside. Played with his dick till he started to moan. Finally dinner arrived and we generally chit chatted,
I asked him how he was feeling about the day and he said that he was loving it !!

Well the feeling was mutual !!!!

I then asked him to go to the washroom of the restaurant and remove his panties. He was embarrassed but did it after a little bit of prodding. I could see the bulge in his pants and I am pretty sure whoever looked there would have noticed it too.  Soon there was a dark spot on the pants and we then decided to call it day.

As we came back home I settled into my lounge chairs and instructed Adi to remove my heels. He knelt down and started his tasks of removing the heels and then massaging the feet to soothe the pain. He then started to suck on the toes and this just sent me to throes of pleasure. He then started to kiss my legs. I then got up and removed my jeans and instructed Adi to strip. Finally when he was fully naked we moved to the bedroom where I lied down and he resumed making love to my leg. He peppered the sole of my foot with warm kisses and then moved up towards my thighs. He then reached my pussy and started in right earnest. Well he had definitely improved and in no time I was cumming again. After all my pleasure It was Adi's turn. I had him lie down besides my and I started to straddle him. I then lowered my dripping pussy on his hungry dick and I could see the passion on his face and I knew it was pure love. I started to rock slowly getting into a rhythm. I knew he is going to come soon so stopped in between. He felt helpless and started to bump up and down. I placed one of my hands on his chest and he knew he needed to stop. I then started the slow rhythm again and brought him to edge again and stopped again. Did it 3 times till he was begging to cum. I asked him how badly he wanted cum. He replied that he would do anything. I then lied down and asked him to enter me. As he started to fuck me I asked him to promise me that he will always love and obey me. Finally I asked him "who is ur true master ?" and He replied "You are Pooja". I then placed one of my fingers on his ass and started to finger him. This sent him right over the edge and he emptied his balls .he then collapsed in my arms and I started to stroke his hair. I asked him how he felt and he just replied
"AMAZING"

I was very happy inside. For a moment I thought of feeding him his cum but decided not to for now.

Finally we cuddled and spooned each other and slept away peacefully.

A new year has started and who knows what all we will it bring . I am excited and I am pretty sure Adi is too to find that out

Till Later
Luv Pooja

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Status Update

I know I have not posted for a while so just wanted to give a quick status update..

Things are progressing quite well and we both are slowly adapting to our roles. Although the relationship calls for a lot of work from Adi and for me to rest believe me that is not the case. Being a leader has its own responsibilities and more important for keeping Adi on his toes all the time I have to think a lot and come up with innovative ideas to pique his interest. IT is HARD WORK but has its rewards as well !! Adi hasn't had an orgasm since last Sunday and we have our anniversary tmw so that will be the perfect time for a heavenly one !!  I am being a tease all the time extracting all the oral sex and keeping him denied. He is frustrated but at the same time happy to help.

Have planned a special anniversary tmw and as part of that will symbolize the relationship even further.I have bought  2 bracelets (Peora Silver Infinity Loop Bracelet Pb3018). 



I plan to present this as a gift to Adi and although it is quite girly he doesn't have a choice. The catch here is that he will be wearing his on his right wrist while I will tie mine on my left ankle. It is a bond of love but also a symbol of our  places in the new relationship. The plan is to have him tie the bracelet on my feet and then kissing them. This will be truly humble for him and will set the mood for the rest of the evening

I still have to come with a mechanism to control his orgasms and how to decide the frequency. I don't want to have a fixed schedule and want it to be more of a game. Ideas invited

Will share the details of the anniversary in my next post so till then


Luv Pooja

P.S - Have started a poll to fulfill some of my fantasies and the idea is to give it as a new year present to Adi & myself so please continue to vote.

Chastity

I have received a fair amount of comments advising to lock Adi into chastity and I too have been thinking on the same lines but unfortunately in India this is illegal and I don't want anything to jeopardize that. However having said that I have been thinking on the merits of chastity and here are my thoughts on that.

Initially in our marriage we both were insatiable and used to fuck like bunnies and one of this nice things about Adi was that he was able to make me orgasm on most times. I never linked sex with anything other than sex. I was of the belief that for me to make Adi to do the housework I don't have to withhold and wanted to keep bedroom and rest of the house separate .

However as the duration of our marriage increased the frequency of sex has decreased and is more of less limited to 2 times a week. Currently we only have penetrative sex and rarely Adi goes down on me. But one thing that I have noticed and observed is that his attention towards me goes down once we have sex. His willingness to have a conversation with me , fetch me things , share the remote etc are just not there. Before last week I had to make a face to get his attention.
In the new arrangement he might not have those liberties explicitly but his feelings implicitly are not going to change. Having gone through multiple blogs I have realized that to have a fundamental change in his feelings I need to ration his orgasms. I have ready blogs limiting their husband's release for weeks but for now my objective is a weekly release for next 2 months and then once every two weeks for next 6 months. My target is to make it a monthly activity by end of next year.

I discussed this with Adi yesterday to hear his thoughts on the same and at first he got defensive and tried to reason with me but ultimately agreed to with me. At this I explained to him that he will have to earn his release now. For now I have not informed him about how I intend to go about it and have told him that I will come with a plan. I have told him that he will have to do a lot or services to me and for the house to be eligible for release. I also informed him that masturbation is a strict no no and punishment will be very severe if he fails.
I explained to him that as in Hindi mythology males abstain from sex to make their gods happy he is doing no different except that instead of a god he is making his wife a goddess happy. 
He is very apprehensive and nervous and I had to again say some nice things to trust me more.
Of course all this withholding sex means I have to find alternate means and I explained to Adi that he needs to go down on me more often. I told him that he has no choice in this matter and now it is not a request but an order everytime I ask for it. I told him that he needs to be more willing to service my pussy and till now was doing an unsatisfactory job and needs to be more respectful to its true master.

As a final twist I added that his release will be directly dependent on the number of times he can me give oral pleasure.

I still have to come with method for him to earn his orgasms that is objective enough. Readers , Any ideas ??

Luv Pooja

Weekly Review

Well it always goes two step forwards and then one step back.

Yesterday evening me and Adi completed one week into our new 24/7 arrangement and we decided to sit together and see what is working and what is not. I asked Adi to gave an honest feedback and he was brutally honest to say the least. I was expecting some of the feedback and it was in line with what I had thought but there were some comments that I was a little surprised to say the least.

One thing that we both agreed is that rituals are just not gonna work. Having a fixed routine via rituals takes the excitement out of the activities and will get monotonous with time. If you remember one of the ritual was for Adi to be naked at home and I realized that within a week I was tired of seeing Adi roaming naked. Even for Adi he was all excited on day 1 and that showed on his dick too but by Saturday he had found a comfort zone and I dont think that is what I want. I want him to be on his toes , unaware of what will come next. So I ditched the whole naked routine and told him that I will decide on runtime what he needs to wear that day. That way he can keep guessing what will happen in the evening .

Similarly we found that shaving his dick and balls everyday is impossible and we agreed to a weekly scheduled. Boot Polish on Saturday took 3 hrs to complete so it is now a monthly task instead of a weekly one.

Adi had some reservations on the pee ritual and pleaded to  not continue with that and for now I have decided to drop that one altogether.

 The only 2 things that remained as it are the new feet touch/kiss ritual and washing my lingerie by hand.
An added responsibility is to take care of all my clothes .Whether it is to pick up everything from the floor after I undress or to hang everything into closet after they are pressed. I have told him that if I find any clothing of mine or his lying unattended he will be punished.

Apart from rituals I asked Adi how he felt the week went by and what is his state of mind and he at first started to say things that he was overwhelmed at first and was afraid if he will be able to satisfy me and had a panic attack at office on Tuesday. However he now understands the dynamic we live by and wants to make me really happy. He feels content when he finds me relaxing on the bed watching TV while he has to take care of the kitchen. At one point he got very emotional and started to thank me profusely for excepting him as he his with all his faults. That is when I got surprised and had to bring him together.

I asked Adi how he feels to be humiliated and Adi explained that initially he was felt quite bad about all the things he has had to do but now he has found that those very things are quite stimulating and he feels aroused when I say mean things to him.

I then told him that I will explore some of the boundaries of humiliation and at first he asked what i had in my mind and got a little nervous but then I assured that he needs to trust me .

I also told him that I am going to reserve 1 hr every week for his punishment. A this he started to complain that what if he has not done anything to warrant a punishment and I replied that having this session is going to be my prerogative and he has no say in it.

TO be Continued ...

Luv Pooja