A new Ritual

As part of our new routine I have introduced a new ritual to our daily routine. Adi was till now required to kiss my feet just after waking up and at end of day. Have modified this ritual a bit now but here is a little background to it.

In a typical Indian marriage wives are required to take blessings from their husbands every morning. In the beginning (I think till we were staying with Adi's parents) I also had to follow this ritual of touching the feet of my father in law, mom in law and Adi. I always detested it and had no way out. However as we started to stay separately I stopped doing it and now only have to do it when were are staying with Adi's parents.

Yesterday someone had commented that as it is a role reversal marriage Adi should have the duty to touch my feet in the morning. I liked the idea and told Adi that going forward he needs to touch my feet in the morning for blessings. He did that today and I asked him what he wanted as a blessing. He replied whatever I felt was right and I then blessed him " May you have serve your wife for a long time ".

Later I asked Adi how it felt and he felt that although humbling it is the right thing to do. I said that is the right answer Adi and then tongue in cheek remarked that he should do this everyday even when we are with his parents. I could see the shock on his face and I quickly added "maybe later".

However I still think this is not a big thing and I can always give an excuse that this is what an astrologer has told us to do (His parents are religious followers and will accept if it comes from a priest or an astrologer)

Will have to think about that. What is ur opinion readers ? Please do share

So what happened to the kissing the feet. Well that just changed time .

Normally I leave office before Adi and he normally says a good bye with a peck on my cheek. Now I have started to stand at the door and call him and then he bows down and kisses my shoes and wishes me a wonderful day.

Well I have a wonderful life !!!

Till Later

Luv Pooja

Why a Wife Led Marriage

A lot of times readers have questioned as to why do I prefer a Wife Led Marriage as opposed to a vanilla relationship. After all all vanilla relationships are a psuedo WLM anyway :-)

I have wondered the same a lot many times as to if I am on the right path and if what we have is healthy for a long term relationship. Also I have doubts about the effect it has on Adi's psyche and how it changes me as a person inwards and outwards. What will happen when we have children. Will we be able to continue this dynamic and also how long can we keep it private.

I have no easy answers to these questions and most of them will only be addressed with time. However there is something I am very sure of .  I WANT TO HAVE THIS !!!!

So here are my reasons as to why I want this so badly even after so many doubts

I am born this way - There are certain people who are born dominant. I remember as a little girl always bullying my cousins even those who were older to me. They all were scared of me and still are to this date.
They always say that there is no winning with this girl. I hated to loose a fight, an argument, a test. Anything
With god's grace I am a beauty with brains and always topped my class and was a good at sports too. My parents used to say that if I was determined to get a thing nobody could come in my way. Even now at work in all my performance reviews I get top rating and the comment that I receive year after year is that they like my determination and the ruthless desire to achieve the results. My team has a lot of respect for my knowledge and are very scared of me too. I can eat them alive for smallest of mistakes and they know that to well now. From all this it was very natural that my dominant nature followed in to my marriage as well. In India we are taught from the very beginning for girls to be more docile , homely and keep the husband at a pedestal. I always challenged this notion and at first was only fighting to be an equal partner in marriage. I think eventually I realized that the I wanted to more. I wanted the power dynamic to be present in my marriage. Just that this time it was in my favor I wanted to have the power and that is why WLM.

Adi was always passive. I will say passive as there is a big difference between passive and submissive. When I first met Adi he was all courteous and chivalrous. I liked that in a man. However as we progressed I found that he had not much drive to succeed in life. He was an average performer at his office and comment lament was that he procrastinated. He is not decisive and always wanted someone make his decisions for him. At home also he was never the won to take a stand. Whenever we had an argument I was always able to beat him to submission in a matter of seconds and he mostly be sorry and beg for me to forgive him. I rarely voiced his opinion and would do things only when told. Now that is what most husbands do at home. which is nothing !! However what I wanted was a submissive. As I was busy with my career I wanted him to be more willing to help at home and not at my direction only. I didn't want a maid who I could assign chores and then do a inspection. From my definition in a WLM a submissive is not a person who just follows the dominant's orders. He anticipates them an fulfills them beforehand. The reason I want this WLM is that I want Adi to turn into a submissive from a passive husband. He should think about things from my point of view, and anticipate my needs and wants.

I think we both are meant for each other

I like to lead and he likes to follow
I feel I am superior to my husband and he agrees
I like to humiliate and he likes to be humiliated
I feel my needs/comfort should first and he needs to ensure that is always the case

I want to achieve where he truly submits to my authority.
Where if he has any doubts he should  instantly recognize my dominant power that clearly gives no room for negotiation.
It should finally sinks in to him that he has no choice in the matter, because he have given up the right to make that choice

Having said all that I will be lying if I say there is no sexual element to this.

All this power excites me to the core and sometimes it goes my head and puts me in a trance. It is like an aphrodisiac . The more power I have the more I want. At times I like to see my husband lying at my feet naked , kissing my heels , begging me for something that I have promised as a reward. I feel a warm sensation in my pussy and want to torment him even more. I like to do things to him because I can and he has no mental power to resist. I have never tied him up and if he wants he can put and end to this physically but I know he has no power.

At the end of the day I know he is under my heels and I want to keep him there  !!!!

Till Later

Luv Pooja


All this

Starting a new chapter

So after the last talk I had with Adi , I could see the discomfort on his face as I had still not replied to his proposal. But then I was just being wicked .In these 2 days I teased him a lot. Not the sexual kind of teasing but the one where he was not sure if I had implicitly agreed to his request or was still contemplating. As it was the weekend we had a lot of time at home and I used it to get a lot of tasks out of the way. Multiple times I would it seem be ordering Adi to do something followed by a polite "Please" that would make it more of a request than an order. Adi was restless and I was enjoying it..I wanted to do this on my terms and not his and what better way of making him realize this but by leaving him hanging there without a clue...

On Sunday morning Adi surprised me by giving me a wrapped box. As I opened I found it had a nice pair of sexy 3 inch black open toe heels.He knew the kind of love I have for heels and he was trying to please me .Nice !!!!!!

By Sunday evening I knew time had come and a decision was to be made. We were watching TV and Formula 1 was on. Adi loves the race and I knew this was the time to hit it right. I think when the race had just started I switched off the TV. Adi looked at me and I said "Adi we need to talk". His eyes pleaded if this was the right time and I held firm. He melted under my gaze and then sat cross legged on the sofa. I then asked him what was it that he needed from me. He hesitated at first and then explained the emotional roller coaster he went through the last couple of weeks. He explained that initially he was happy but then he started to miss the closeness we had before. He said that he was torn apart to accept that he liked being controlled but then once he had accepted the truth he felt peace and wanted to start over again. After listening to him pour his heart out like this was heartwarming and my love for him grew 4fold. Till now it was only me who was fulfilling her fantasies and now when we both wanted to the same thing I was much more assured. I then told him that i was going to ask him something before I made my decision. He nodded "yes"

Pooja- Will you accept me to be the leader in our marriage and promise to obey me at all times with no questions asked ?

Adi - Absolutely Pooja

I then asked Adi to get up and get naked and sit on the floor in front of me. Adi immediately stood up and started to undress. I also removed the shorts I was wearing and was now only in my panties waist down.
As Adi settled down I started to tell Adi that going forward we are going to be in marriage where I come  first and my needs will precede his. I told him that now this is going to be a full time arrangement and not like the one we had before. I told him that I still value our marriage and privacy and would like to keep most of that but he will have no say if I decided to put him in his place in front of others. I then explained that we will have general rules that he will have to follow and that there will be punishments .
I then handed him a paper telling him that here is a list of rules and punishments that he needs to adhere by. I also informed him that this list is still work in progress and will develop with time.
This is what I had written till now
General Rules
1 You accept my authority as the head of household
2  You accept to love respect and always obey me
3  You will be faithful to me and not do any masturabation or any sexual activity without my permission
4 You will accept my decision as final. When needed I will ask for ur opinion but at the end I will be the decision making authority
5 You will always put my pleasure above yours..
6 You will do all the work I allocate to you without any questions.
7 I can punish you anytime anyplace and you need to take it without any questions

I then told Adi that there should be some rituals that he needs to follow. At this Adi looked up confused . I told him that these rituals are to reinforce my dominance over him and to remind him the relationship we have. I told him that I am still not complete with the list of rituals but here are some that he needs to follow from immediate effect

1) He needs to remain in panties or naked whenever we are at home alone
2) He needs to always kiss my feet in the morning and before sleeping and take my blessings ( a reversal of what happens in a typical indian marriage)
3) He needs to shave his dick  and cut his pubic hair once a week. (At this Adi started to protest at which I just looked and he went quiet :-) )
4) He needs to wash all my lingerie by hand at the end of each day
5) He needs to clean my pussy after the first pee of the day.
6) He needs to wear panties to office and only exception would be a medical reason
7) He needs to do polish all my shoes ( I have over 30 pairs) once a week.

I then asked Adi if he was ready to start a new chapter in our marriage and Adi replied that he would love to. He then bent forward and started to kiss my feet to prove his acceptance. He continued to kiss for 5 mins laying soft kisses on toes when I remembered something,. I asked Adi to stop and asked him to bring the heels he had presented to me in the morning. While he was gone I removed the panties I was wearing and was now only in my T Shirt. When he came back to room , I asked Adi to put the heels on my feet. Adi then knelt down in front of me and carefully started to put them on. When he finished I stood up and I could feel a rush of power . Standing in front of Adi with my hands on my hips with him kneeling staring at my feet I felt AWESOME. I then grabbed a fistful of his hair at the back of his head and yanked his head up and asked " Adi , do you know what these heels at my feet represent ? "
Adi was confused and had no reply.
I then got in his face and said " These heels represent your free will & your soul that you have surrendered to me today and they also represent you and your place in this marriage which is under my FEET."

I then pulled his head near my pussy with his nose just brushing against the hairs of my by now wet cunt. I then said " This is ur new MASTER and you need to obey all its commands and remember that you are inferior to it all times. Now go ahead and give proper respect to your new Master" This was a replay of what Neha had did to Adi and Adi knew what was to be done. He planted a kiss on my pussy lips and started to suck. After a couple of mins I lied down on the sofa and asked Adi to get down to work. He started to kiss my feet and remove the new sandals. I asked him to stop and leave them on. I then ordered Adi to suck on the heel of the new sandal and he opened his mouth to take the right foot's heel in. As he sucked the heel I told him that he should imagine the heel as a dick and try to make love to it . I then teased him that he is great cock sucker whore and that maybe he needs a good fucking like a slut he is . I could see that all this dirty talk was humiliating Adi but I could also see his dick all hard. At this I removed my heel from his mouth and grabbed his dick and started to suck. Adi started moaning as I took his balls in my mouth and sucked on then. I then laid back and guided his dick into my wet pussy. As we built towards an amazing orgasm I started to talk dirty again calling Adi names and threatening to punish him if he came before me. Luckily we both had a near simultaneous climax that left us both dazed. As Adi started to pull out of me I had a devilish idea. I know I am expanding the boundaries of my marriage and this was the perfect opportunity. I put my middle finger below my pussy and immediately some sticky cum landed on it. I pulled my finger up and asked Adi to open his mouth. Adi has always repelled at the idea of eating cum and started to refuse. He started to plead and beg. I kept quiet for a minute and then with my left hand grabbed his head and said
"WILL YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH OR NOT ?" Adi could see in my eyes ad voice that I will not relent and reluctantly opened his lips. I started to rub my finger on his lips slowly pushing it in for him to stuck. Adi stood there paralyzed. I then stopped and just said "SUCK". He then with a very unwilling mind started to suck slowly. I then pushed his head in a up and down motion to make him suck the finger completely. I then removed my finger from his mouth and said "SWALLOW". Adi took some time but then started to swallow. He had a gag reflex once but then managed to gulp it down.

WOW THAT WAS AMAZING

I then asked Adi to thank me properly for the wonderful orgasm and he immediately went down to my feet and started to kiss my feet and sandals. I then got up and brought Adi up and hugged him.

I know we have started a new journey and I am very excited now as now my partner is with me. Let us see where it all takes us..

P.S. I am still struggling with punishments for Adi and would welcome suggestions on that front. I need things that are humiliating and also reinforce my dominance,

Till Later

Luv Pooja

Ideas Needed

I am thinking of making some rules/guidelines that Adi will have to follow in the house going forward. I have a general idea but would want some suggestions (innovative ones) for tasks & punishments to make it interesting and unexpected for him. Should have a humiliation aspect and should reinforce the message as to who is the boss in this relationship..Please send ur suggestions .

Luv Pooja

Cross Roads

Has been a while since I posted last but there was a reason for that. In the last post I had mentioned how I had punished Adi for some of the things and had more or less humiliated him.

When I had done those things I had questioned myself if it was taking things too far but then had went ahead with them without thinking about the consequences.

Well consequences it had !!! After the punishment day Adi became a little detached and started to keep very quiet. I tried to get him to talk to me but he kept avoiding it. I then had to force him to speak up his mind and that he did !! He explained that he thought that I had gone too far last time I punished him and questioned that if I loved him anymore. He expressed that more than love he feared me and was actually scared of me. I was taken aback by this outburst and asked him what was it that he actually wanted. He said that he didn't know but it was definitely not what we had right now. I was a little hurt but I realized that he was being genuine and that I had to do some introspection. I told Adi that for now everything will stop and we need to figure our future out.
Luckily I was scheduled for a week's official visit to a different city and thought it will give me a perfect time to be alone to gather my thoughts. Well the week went by very fast. It was hectic and I really had not got much time to analyze so when I got back we continued having a very vanilla relationship. No more orders to Adi and no more punishments.. Just an average couple going through the motions. I had planned to give this a month to see if this is something I can live with.

However something strange happened yesterday. When I reached home I saw Adi already in the kitchen preparing dinner. Normally on a weekday it is me who does the cooking and Adi helps with the plates and cleanup after. I changed my clothes and went to help at which Adi sent me back to relax and watch TV. I was surprised but happy as I was tired and could definitely catch up on some rest. I lied on the bed and switched on the TV . After a while Adi called me for dinner and found that he had cooked my favorite dishes. He was definitely out to impress me. After a good dinner Adi again volunteered to take care of the dishes and I went to the living room to work on my laptop. After 30 odd minutes Adi came to the living room and sat on the sofa besides me. He then asked me if I was tired and wanted a foot rub. When I nodded yes he asked me to put my feet in his lap. He then started to massage my right foot and it felt GOOOOD !!!! I started to enjoy his care and his hands made me relax... He then took my big toe in his mouth and started to suck on it... I had a shiver run down my spine.. I closed to laptop and laid down in the sofa for some pleasure.. After a few minutes Adi asked if I wanted to some oral pleasure and now I was reaaallly very surprised as I knew Adi never did this on his own.. Of course I immediately pulled down my shorts & panties and Adi dove right in. IT FELT REALLY GOOD and Adi made all the effort to make this a memorable one...
After a good 15-20 mins I had a crackling orgasm and could feel a buzz in the head that was pure pleasure !! Adi then came up and we hugged and we lay cozy on the sofa for sometime. Adi then said that he wanted to talk to me. At that time I was in such heaven that I would have given the world to him.He then sat up and held my hand and said that in the last 2 weeks he has realized something about himself. I then sat up concerned to hear what was to come next. He then poured his heart out explaining that he was missing me and that he wanted to go back to our arrangement of me leading him. All the time he was looking down almost as if he was a little ashamed to admit this. He finally asked if I was ready to go back and start over again ... I wanted to say "Yes" immediately but that would have been to easy for him. I suppressed a giggle and got up and said in a aloof voice " I need to think about this " and then I left the room. I could see the puzzled look on Adi's face as he was expecting an instant "Yes".

I will wait till the weekend when I will lay down my terms for the relationship going forward Till that time let him torment ...I know I am a devil :-)

Till Later

Luv Pooja